Hi Chad - I too am a bedwetter, am married and have trhe probelms of my wife's acceptance / tolerance of me wearing nappies in bed. I get ready when she is in the bathroom and wear the nappy under my pyjamas so that when she comes back in the bedroom I'm ready. In the morning I get up first, go straight to theh bathroom and take off the nappy and dispose of it. I wish I could be less covert about it and my wife was more at ease with the whole thing. I hope it comes with time. i guess all I can say is persevere with it and talk about the issue, explaining that we are not alone - many millions of adults wear nappies at night so why is it so shameful, etc. Good luck with it all.