Hello, I do have a very similar problem like your husband. I never had it before (as an adult, I am 33 now) Until recently, it happened with me three times in December of 2002(for the first time) and once in the middle of March. That is total of 4 times in 4 months. It is bothering me a lot. I went to Dr., he checked me out for infection, bladder volume test. Things came normal, thanks to God. But, still I don't understand what is the cause. 2 of the 4 times, I had dream of going to the bathroom and peeing, and I do pee for real. This been a new stress in my life, and it is worrying me. But, If I were you, just be soft and nice on him and assure him that this is not going to affect your relationship with him.... until he trust you and may open to you. Here is my email, if you like more correspondence. smoking_sky2000@yahoo.com