Hi Pam, A little hard to understand your message, but I think what you are trying to say is: You've started to wet the bed recently, but you wet as child (never?) Are you saying it started still you began to stay at a friend's house? If you've never wet the bed regularily before then the reason could be either physiological (you have a illness or a injury) or psychological are you worried about something (this trip with a friend) Lastly you should be able to manage the problem with diapers or similar products, it'd just a case of finding the best product for your body shape, many of the manufactors have help lines and can supply free samples. It's good to see a women posting here, it's normally so male dominated.