Dude,chances are that the people picking on you also have a wetting problem,If co workers cant except it then tell them that you are not happy about there comments and explain that you have a medical problem. Mention this site so they can see for themselves that adults do have urinary problems. as for the vandalism on your house,all I can say is POLICE! Taking your life IS NOT THE ANSWER,If you are serious in these thoughts talk to the right proffesionals they realy do help, as I have had these thoughts also.They helped me alot.One more thing try to find others that you can talk to in person that have the same problems,talking about the problem is the greatest help!