There are a fair amount of people I have spoken with that are incontinent or have nocturnal enuresis that have embraced the DL lifestyle, because it makes them more comfortable with a challenging part ofd their life. I don't think you should discourage him from wearing them daily, but if you do not wish to engage in sexual acts while he wears them, I can understand that totally. I suggest you talk to him about his wishes and yours and strike a compromise.. he can wear them when he wants, but not durring sex. Marriage is all about compromise with each other, so try to do your part and encourage him to also. Craig