Hi Terry, I really feel for you! I know the anxiety this problem can cause. People can be cruel, but you have to try not to let them get to you. This is something you have absolutely no control over. Hopefully since this is a christian hostle there will be some compassion shown towards you. I bet you'll find that most of your roommates will be understanding. It will be ok, trust me. I've learned in life that things are never as bad as they seem. It's all in the mind! But there are some people who are jerks in this world and you have to be the bigger man and not let them get to you. In other words, ignore them! Or you could tell them they should be thankful that they have control over this area. How would they feel if they were laughed at because they wet themselves/their bed and they had absolutely no control over it. I don't think they'd appreciate it! I know it's embarrasing to be in a diaper and plastic pants, but don't fret it, you have this condition and these are your underwear, it's no big deal (but it sure feels like it, right!?) but it's not, trust me. Hang in there mate!!! It's going to be alright, you'll see! Cheers, Ian