You need to tell him about your problem BEFORE you wet the bed on him. If he truely loves you, he will be understanding. If he isn't understanding, you would be better off finding out now, rather than later. You should not enter a serious relationship with the fear of him finding out about something you can not control. As hard as it is, tell him. I told my wife before we got engaged and it worked out well. We've been married over 20 years...all of which I have slept in a diaper to keep the bed dry for the both of us. Frank