Hey I am just trying to make friends with people with similar medical problems. nothing more. I have been married for 15 years now and she is supportive i also have 2 wonderful kids that dont hold my medical problems against me. the only people who hold it against me are those that dont understand what its like to live with it. if you dont want to talk with me thats fine but dont even respond then. my time is to valuable to waste reading crap like that(Thomas)