Hello There, I would say your husband is a very lucky man because you seem to understand his problem very good. I just wonder when you say frequent, how frequent he has these accidents? I am about 34 years old, and I started having these accidents infrequently. That is about 4 times in 8 months. The reason I ask about the frequency is because I would like to find out if his case is similar to my case. And as for me it started about 8 months ago, before that I never had it happen to me, so it is kind of very vague of what would be the cause of such a thing. If you like to write me more, feel free to email me at smoking_sky2000@yahoo.com. I do have also couple of more questions for you.