If someone really knows you and cares about you, they won't care about the wetting...if someone is just in it for the sex, you really aren't a factor anyway. Superficial relationships are just that- not about the real person behind the thing they want. Find someone, get to know them BEFORE you do the horizontal boogie, and maybe you'll find someone who wants you for YOU, and is willing to work around the problem. Sex is cheap, relationships aren't.... don't think that it's YOU that the person is rejecting- they just didn't get what they wanted. That says WAY more about the other person than it does you.