Hey, i also have bed wetting problem and it kills me aswell to no that ive never grown out of it, but to tell u the truth all u gotta do is be honest about it im in a relationship and my man totally understands my bed wetting problem even though he hates it but hes still with me and thats all that matters, so all u gotta do is tell him the problem u r having and he either understands u or leaves u but if he leaves u then its definately not love if hes still with u then its cause he loves u deeply, but ill tell u sumfing once he nos about it it will take alot of yr chest believe me....heres my email its tray_2002nz@msn.com ok dont hesitate to talk to me thru email ill reply back to u asap ok take care bye now...