Hi Starr, you say he did this twice before your marriage, didnt you question him then. Is it after a night of heavy drinking,has he been to a doctor,urologist or chiropractor..could be nerve rubbing against spine..solutions if only occaisonal-have him take medication ddvap, do to doctor and put mattress cover on bed and have him wear disposable diaper to bed..if light wetting can use walmart assurance diapers-cheap, if heavier recommend tena or molicare adult diapers order from HDIS or Magical Medical mail order--plain boxes, fast delivery. Sounds like from what you wrote not too serious for cloth diapers and plastic pants. Get to root of problem first, seems its bothering you already.