kelly i'am sorry to hear that you have a problem pooping youer pants.due to lost of youer bowels.i'll try to help since i don't have this problem just servre bladder lost.first see a doctor mybe cause by stomach problems or medication.in the meantime start using a heavyer diaper that asorb both bladder or bowel problems.if need help chosing the right one for your problem. call 1 800 to my home talk to a healthcare rep.she'll help you to find the right diaper for you.plus thay deliver to your door privitely. don't feel bad i wear diapers too for three years for my problem 24/7.i don't like them either but what can we do we need them. wish you luck chase