Sissy, it's not that uncommon a thing. Don't worry about it, just do what you have to. My wife also wets once in a while...it's no big deal. It happens to many of us. I have had wetting problems since my 30's when I would wet some after having already gone to the bathroom. When I got a bit older, I would also wake in the morning to find my underwear wet, so that's when I started wearing protection. I wear diapers every night now, and I'm always wet in the morning. Life goes on.