hi thanks for understanding my husbands night problem im not ashamed of my husband that he needs to wear diapers at night.i just feel sorry for him having his wife powder and diaper him for better protection &fit.but have him diaper me i don't know. i think diapers are used for people that really need them. like you and my husband with no control of your self not for enjoyment.my husband hates wearing them but its the only protection he needs for all night protection.sorry to hear of your trucking accident do you need them for both incontience needs.i like to hear from you again. good luck