hello kim i have been a wetter since a car accident at age 19... it was very embarissing for me.. i sheltered myself from others.. especially women.. i felt "defective" and who would wnd a man in diapers.... well years have passed.. i finally came to terms with it... who cares if i am in diapers... i might be alone , but i am content... you will come to terms with diapers someday.... but i understand how you feel right now....relax, its okay.. diapers aren't bad or the end of your life.... we can chat if you like... keep the faith and keep in touch... huggs... chris