A good word editor can help with problems such as the capitalization errors in your message. However, I am not aware of any word processors, spell checkers, or grammar programs that can tell you whether you have selected the proper homonym. I'm referring to "threw," which is what I assume you meant by "throw." The correct homonym in this case would be "through." I feel you may get more replies to your messages if the spelling and grammar problems can be eliminated. I once learned to use "slave code," in which all references to myself were intentionally displayed in lower case, while those to my Friend and Master were capitalized. (i don't believe this is what you had in mind, nor do i believe you want your messages to be interpreted this way.) I don't live in your state, but you are welcome to write to me anytime concerning any problems due to your incontinence. I was married for over 32 years to the same woman when my bladder problems began. If handled right, sleepwetting should not cause you to have any relationship problems. BTW, I do live in the deep south, and work in TN. Bye, y'all, Lenny lenny217@yahoo.com