I also have the same problem and one of the hardest things is haveing to stay 3 to ? days at a hospital. I did let them know that I have a problem and was told not to worry about it and was asked me if I would not mind useing a adult diaper or external catherter. I have ben useing external catherters for a long time but I think that if a person has a wetting problem thay shoule be able to use what ever works best for them.