Reply from Brian, Age 66 - 1/3/04 - IP#:   adultbb_25-c1649

My immediate reaction when I read this was 'Why don't you tell her wha you think and tell her that there is no problem?' What we bedwetters are most afraid of is rejection. she may want to tell you but she will probably be in agony waiting for the right moment to tell you. we fedel shame about our bedwetting, even though we know that it is not our fault. SHE MAY NEVER PLUCK UP THE COURAGE TO TELL YOU. talk to her. Tell her there is no problem. Tell her everything is the same as it was before. I sincerely wish you both the best of luck.