HI jess i'am sorry to hear about your boy friends problem.i'am 31 i have to wear diapers 24/7 due to bladder infection.tell him that you know his problem and that you understand. that you love him very much and that you need him to wear diapers to bed.that if he really loves you that he well.good luck andwer my board . keep me informed i don't have a computer so you can't e mail me