"What can I do to help him wear his diaper to bed? and What can I do to encourage him not to cover things up in the morning." I've been a bedwetter my entire life and feel as though I've had the entire range of emotions in dealing with it. Once he realizes how supportive you'll be of him wearing a diaper and how much less work, smell and cost it will be to you, I would hope he'd be able to work this out emotionally. I'd suggest telling him 1) that he doesn't have to get protected until you've fallen asleep 2)I find that if I wear a pair of regular underwear over my diaper, it makes it much more comfortable for my wife if we should touch or want to snuggle - it also makse ant diaper quieter, and 3)in the morning, either be out of the bedroom before he gets out of bed or just let him have the privacy he needs to get out of his diaper alone, or unseen. Also, providing some place where he can put the diaper where he believes you'll never see it can alos be more dignified for a guy. Good luck!