I did not start wetting the bed regularly until my 20. I came to realize that I could not control my night wetting but I could control how it effects me and my wife by wearing protection. This made wearing diapers much easier. At first it helped a lot to wear something over them, like boxers. It also helps to have a diaper that doesn't crinkle every time you move, helps you to forget you have it on. I find that cloth feels much more dignified and much less diaperish.