Dave, I would not suggest taking advice from Kez, as it is likely to get you arrested. I don't know anything about Australian laws, but here in America, if you were to duck behind a tree in public and do your business, you could get arrested for urinating and/or defacating in a public place, which is a class B misdemeanor. There is nothing wrong with wearing diapers to avoid accidents, its the smart, responsible thing to do. If you need to wear diapers, then do so, as I do, it's much better to have a wet diaper on under your pants than no diaper and wet pants for all to see and laugh at. Secondly, why would you specifically want a woman that has to wear diapers too? Any woman that still loves you after discovering that you wear diapers if a woman worth keeping! Unless you are one of those diaper fetishists that gets their jollies looking at women in diapers and is simply looking to have wet/poopy diaper sex. Finally, the odds of finding a female diaper fetishists that is willing to hook up with you for wet/poopy diaper sex is about as likely as finding a diamond the size of a football in your yard.