Hi Jane, I know how you feel as i'm a normal size man and when i do go out with a girl and she finds out that i wear diapers and i did not tell her from the start she think i hide every thing!!! Some day you will come across someone that will except you for you- i know someday that will be for me also.To bad you arn't near me as i would except you for you !!!:) Good luck and have a great day!!!!!!!!!!