hi jennifer i understand your problem.i'am 32year old and needs to wear dipaers24/7 for about 5years now.do to servre bladder infection which left me with no control at all plus i just had a growth moved from my bladder with made my bladder weak.my doctor told me that i have a bladder of a new born.when it time to go i go with out wourning.trying to find a relationship is hard women.don't want a man in diapers 24/7.for your husbands bedwetting put him back in diapers it will keep your bed dry.i'll be in them forever