hi valerie i'am 32years old.i been wearing diapers for five years now.for servre bladder lost due to bladder infection and i had a growth removed form my bladder.with made my bladder weak.i have no control using diapers is betters than walking around with wet & messie pants.i can relate with you medicene my doctor gave me.makes me mess myself too.but about 3times a week.valerie go with diapers thay work my size is med. i have 34in waste.