dear Myfanwy, you say about if you go into a relationship and he finds out you wet the bed well its a short answer to that If he thinks that much of you he wouldnt care and if he loves you that much then it would not matter. Also i suggest you contact your gp and ask his advice as you are young !he may order an investigation into it ie it could be a a infection you dont know? hope this is of help to you! Best wishes Tom