Have you tried the Regain device. It works well, not uncomfortable to wear. It is a device that helps block the urethera (outside the penis) and you release it to urinate normally. No need for diapers. It is made by medi tech. Cost is about $25 each and are reusable. usually keep 2. You can reach. them at 18882098609 or you can go on line. I found it at a diabetic supply web site also.