OK, why not either wear nappies, disposable of washable or see your doctor and get sheaths and a colection bag. I have been incontinent and partly paralysed for 20 years due to MS butr I do not expect to make the bed wet or my wife to put up with it. When we can keep the bed dry with aids we should do so. try visiting. http://www.arizona.free-online.co.uk/ for terrry towelling squares and plastic pants and www.coloplast.co.uk for sheaths and drainage bags and http://www.hartmanndirect.co.uk/d-commerce/ for disposable nappies. I live in Scotland, am familiar with the UK Health Service and can advise you more if you email me. my address is Kanga2433@hotmail.com Good luck