Reply from Juergen, Age 38 - 8/21/00Hi John, all I can say at this moment is don't give up. I know were you are going through. I'm social worker and have to deal a lot with kids, teens and young adults that wet. It's a good thing wearing diapers. It's a very grown solution to do so and you're definitely NOT a baby wearing them. Regarding friends,well, true friends really don't care if you bedwet or not, if you have to wear diapers or not. And so will your girlfriend, too. It's hard how your family handles your problem, keeping it as a VERY secret. They definitely shouldn't do so. You are just fine and no hidden desease. Just think about it as your weak point. Everybody has one. So don't stop trusting in you and try to make friends who understand you and who you can talk with about your problems. If you like to you can also email me at Juergen.Kriks@t-online.de Take good care of yourself and God bless you Juergen |