Carrie: Somebody that really loves you will marry you. As you can see, I am much older, but your message touched me. When I was 16 years old I met a very beautiful and wonderful girl. She was very intelligent, musically talented, Spiritual, and had a wonder sense of humor. After a few dates, she told me she had a bladder problem, that included both day time and night time wetting. This was in 1954, and there wasn't the support you have today. A lot of boys would not date her because of her problem, but I didn't care about her problem, because I loved her. Especially her wonderful attitude towards her problem. She always said, "to those who love me, it doesn't matter, and to those who don't love me, it doesn't matter either". We will be married 45 years this June, and I still love her as much as the day I married her. Concentrate on being the best person you can be, and somebody wonderful will come along and sweep you off your feet - I guarantee it!