First off, your not too old to be wearing diapers. Ive been in Pampers from 6th grade to 9th and been wearing Attends now. Since a fence accident crippled the nerves of my bladder, I had to wear 24/7. I used to feel so embarressed to take my shirt off or even go swimming. But I didnt let that stop me from having fun. My counsler told me this a while back. When people make fun of you, it means theyre insecure with something in thier life OR they have the same problem. If you want to wear boxers, go ahead. Just make sure the you have them over your diaper so nothing shows. What kind do you wear anyway? If you want to talk more, Rich641028@hotmail.com