i have the exact same problem with my boyfriend hes in the military and wants to get married so that i can go wherever hes stationed. But i pee the bed and i need to get the problem fixed before he finds out. BUt revently i SLEPT at his place cuz usually when im there i fight my sleep and stay up all night, but this night i really fell asleep and woke up in the middle of the night in the biggest puddle of urine and i was scared to move..so i layed there a while as if i was sleep and i felt him put his leg by me and then he put his hand down there and felt the bed then he fell back asleep. I the morning he woke me up and i was soo embarresed and told him some lame excuse about a urinary tract infection.