Let me say this....if a person ( either Male or Female )has a problem controlling His or Her own bladder or bowl movement ; He or she should wear some kind of undergarment , like Depends or Nighttimes. However , they should not be treated like Infants at any time. Anyone who does this to another person has something wrong with them. They should be taught a lesson . You guys are Big Kids ; Not Babies ! if I were you guys , I would report that person to the police . That's abuse !