Sorry to hear that you lost your mom. You want to talk to someone who understands your problem? Actually, the best person you can talk to is most likely your dad. Bedwetting is often hereditary, and the fact that you and your brother are both bedwetters means there is a strong probability that your dad was too when he was young. Single parents have a hard time raising kids by themselves and he is probably having to work long hours to support his family, but ask him to set aside a little time to talk about your problem. You will probably find that he is very understanding, especially if he has been there himself.