Brian, I am really sorry to hear about your situation also. I can relate somewhat to you and your brother because I also grew up wetting while my brother (2 years younger) did not wet, which was really frustrating for me. I am 25 now and still wet at night occasionally, although not as much as I did as a kid. Anyway, I would be happy to talk to you and share some of my experiences if you want; reply back if you'd like my e-mail address; or meet me in the adults chat room sometime, I am in there fairly often in the late evening hours (central time). I will pray for you and your family... take care, and hang in there! -- Adam