Unfortunately when a person pases away as your Mum has done it effects people in different ways Unfortunately some people put their time into their work and forget about the other people who are getting hurt like yourself your dad is not spending quality time with you it is probably because he has not started to mourn the loss of your mum and trying to block it out of his mind He should get bereavement councilling and as this young lad has said yes there are some beautyful ladies about but I dont think your dads mind is on other women at present he needs time to mourn! ask an aunt to have a word with him ! best wishes.