Dear Britney, I sympathise with your predicument and applaud you in your actions as a sympathetic mother As a father of Three I am aware of problems with children you said that your daughter meses the med that could be a sign that she is un-happy emotionally in some way ( no reflections on yourself ) as worries at school bullying to name but two causes that can manifest itself in this way family problems parents argueing alot or violncein the home No aspersions intended !feeling left out althese are avenues that have to be explored to find out why she is doing this she may not know it may be subconcious you know your daughter if she has not done this since being a baby then these i have discussed about must be a possibility a close relative dying is another you say she stormed off so obviously she is against the idea of diapers forceing your child will only make her recent you and your husband tact and love and talking !. If she has brothers and sisters is another thing jealousy of siblings, of them getting more attention than her!is another reason we as parents sometimes react too quickly and we need to stand back and look at all thats going on in your daughters life there are clues out there! it is like a jigsaw puzzle piecing them together!forcing her into diapers she feels like sit is a punishment for what she is doing! try her with pullups or drynights but dont force say it is only temporary till she can control her personal hygiene but i really think it is to do with something going on in her life! from what you have said if you wish to talk my email is: partackuk@yahoo.com hope this is of help to you! best wishes, Tom. parent