Thank You Adam exactly my sentiments However i being a parent of 3 + a stepson and i haveing gone through this with my children and myself as a child does give some credance to what i have said both in the past and recently I am not an Exponant of "you Must wear This because i say so " authoritarian Victorian eara stance yes i do agree wearing some protection is better than sleeping in a wet bed but there are concerns expressed by professionals that wearing diapers can cause fetishes and so on!I am not here to criticise anyone it is up to the parent involved what they do with their child all i am here is to try and help those parents who do need help in deciding what to do it doesnt always mean that when a child wets it is lazyness or late developement it could be medical ! . and John i am not critisizing you either you do a valued service on this website just because i point out some facts you covered other things that at the time i did not think about ! so you covered other aspects so please I know you did apologise by saying sorry but it serves no constructive purpose to criticise others unless there intentions are not constructive or not right on this board(If you get the jist of what i am trying to say as I did not quite know how to put it without offending anyone unjustly best wishes all and please Lets get down to the matter in hand and help those who need the advice and not squabble one with another best wishes all Tom .Uk