Hi Deborah, What you say is true. With a free access site like this, the quality of the participants is diluted. I do have a suggestion. If you have some time, visit the parent’s chat room. It is quite easy to determine if someone is legitimate. Then you can share information and antidotes about your children. My Morgan is 10. And like your daughter, she is beyond the age when most children have wetting problems. And yes, there may other reasons then the strictly medical for our children’s wet problems. I hope to see you in chat someday … and best wishes with your daughter. Regards, Cindy