I have "control" problems myself. I came to this site awhile back. I am an adult, not a child. I have had the Dreaded wetting for many years. It is amazing how the internet has changed the way we communicate! When I was a kid it was plastic sheets and towels. I never joined the Scouts or any social programs that had sleep-overs or camping or staying overnight. I am Very Impressed by the majority of concerned parents, the different age groups, male and female posters, that have "control" problems. A long while back I relised that it is something not to be embarrased by or be ashamed of but it is something to deal with and managed the best you can. The people that make "fun" of you may have some "secret" of their own. Keep your self esteem high! Millions of people have bedwetting, incontinence, and alot of Major problems such as Cancer or another tramatic conditions. Ours is not the worst that can happen. To all that Genuine use this bulletin board, God bless you! You will succeed! To the Deviant "people" LEAVE THIS SITE ALONE!!!!! You are screwed up, do not try to ruin others lives. Get help!!!!!! I apoligize for any mis-spellings. I tried to correct this using my dictionary. There isn't a spell checking feature offered.Sorry for the long post but I hope this stays a genuine site for bedwetters, their parents, and people with a Genuine incontinence (day and/or night) condition. - Tom T