Deborah: We do not take exception to your opinion and position regarding this website, but your post sort of trips over itself here and there. Firstly, just what do you conclude that a parent is trying to do? While you are on that point, you seem to not give concern and understanding for the parent and sic.her frustration sometimes being "at her wits end", as they say. Secondly, while it is acknowledged that there are a few strays, there are persons within this board who actually REALLY care and give it the old college try to help. AND finally, regarding your daughter, while it seems that you are dying to tell us something, it is possible that we have heard it before. Please do not understand this to be a rebuttal to your post, because you are substantially correct with your concerns. Feel yourself welcome to the site and please join us to field some of the issues for yourself...Regards, and hugs for your daughter.....mr j