Hey Tom, I was a bedwetter. I am now a diaper fetishist. At 10, I still wet at night and sometimes during the day. For that, I was put back in diapers by a parent who, like Denise, thought more of herself then her kid. After a few years of being treated like a baby, I became permanently damaged by it, like Denise's kid. I now carry this lead weight around my social life forever. Thanks mom and those who think like her! I came here while searching the web to understand myself. After reading a ton of posts by parents who use diapers to make their lives easier, I understand why my life is harder. It was a trade off. Maybe they didn't know, but thats what they did. I have cousins who were bedwetters. They all out grew it and so did I. They had their wet sheets changed, I had my wet diapers changed. They went on to a normal adult life, I went on to a fetish. So, you go ahead and comfort Denise. As she tells you about her 12 year olds regression at her hands, you go ahead and help her through it. As she talks about how diaperering her kid has led the kid to soiling too, you make chit chat. Don't suggest mental health counseling. Why would a 12 year old baby need that? I appreciate the fact that you have chosen not to respond to me anymore. Thank you. Reader