I had problems last year with my daughter and was at my wits end!-my partner was no help and said it was a womans job to deal with her,and I'm glad to say that from advice I got from this site,we found an effective solution and things are back to normal in the house! I certainly don't think all the people who use this site are freaks or kinky in any way,although there are always a few weirdos everywhere!I definitely did not enjoy washing bedclothes every night,or the tantrums and scenes with my daughter when I tried using plastic pants over her cloth diaper as one solution and was really glad we found another way out of our problems! By the way, my sincere advice is to avoid using these,as no kid wants to be humiliated and made to feel like a baby-if they do enjoy it,then there is a problem which needs attention from a councillor,unless it's a temporary medical condition!Apart from all that,I had the embarrasment trying to hide diapers/plastic pants when visitors came as they new we didn't have a baby and all my friends that do use disposables anyway! But you have my full sympathy folks if your kid does have a problem as I know what it's like!