First of all Monica implyed she had a maid typically that means she doesnt live in a trailer (she could but doubtful). Second of all dont you believe that sleep is important to a growing kid. And wouldnt you also agree that waking up the child at 2 in the morning gets ruins the sleep cycle. I couldnt imagine if my mom had done that to me especcally considering it often takes 30-60 minutes for me to get to sleep. Listen diapers are sometimes the best thing and they wont always effect kids the way they effected you. You said parents shouldnt let there kids mess there diapers but what do you suppose they do about it when/if they do; spank them, beat them, make them feel worse about it then they already do. It seems to me that because you had a bad experience you think everyone else should have 1 too. Listen diapers wont always effect kids the same way. Does alcohol effect everyone the same way, does playing bad video games effect everyone the same way; (not that diapers are the same as those 2) of course not so why would diapers effect everyone the same way. Bryan