Yes, there are some outrageous posts here, but you can probably figure out which ones those are and ignore them. There are also some of us who make an honest effort to help. I exchanged a few messages with Marie last November that I hope gave her a little help dealing with her daughter’s problem. If your daughter has a real bedwetting problem, then those of us who have been there are more than willing to share our experiences with you. I don’t understand the comment about wetting on purpose – that usually indicates some fetish behavior – but I’m open minded and if you are really looking for help you’ll need to provide more details about your daughter’s problem.