Bob it's people like you that ruin this board. he purpose of this board here is to help each other with information or suggetstions or telling of a personal experience. I told what I did. But then people like you come along and insist on what we should or shouldn't do. It's pretty damn ignorant if you think your way is the only right way. I do things my way and you do things you're way. I'm a good mother and I will not let you or anyone else tell me how to raise my kids.