Dear Laura you said in your post that developing a fetish is only where a person likes to stay in a wet nappy well i hate to have to disallusion you but there are different sorts of fetish one is liking being in a nappy/diaper as it makes them feel secure and comfortable in them and by a child being in them at a vulnerable age there is research pointing to that children of between the ages of 8 to your sons age puberty they could develope this fetish! But this board is not for discussing those problems it is for trying to to eleviate the discomfort aof bedwetting! so I dont want to be drawn into a long discussion over what i have said as I was a bedwetter when i was a child till 17 so I do know what I am talking about with regards bedwetting I suggest you look more closely at the opening pages of this web site! best wishes , Tom