Stephanie, I can be a bitch sometimes I supposse but regadless of what you think I do love my daughter and I don't tell or force her to wear goodnites. As I said it used to be every night and she is now down to 3 or 4 nights a week, so it appears to be getting better. She has supportive friends and parents. Together we will get through this. I have patience, love, and faith and that's all you need. Monica