sorry to here he was hurt this way i hope i can asure you taht he will be ok but some people do not understand sad to day but heis not alone i was hurt at 3 by my sister pulling a chair from under me at 3 and it left me totally diaper dependant i never got to find out what not being diapered is like but then i got used to wearing diapers and people knowing i got to the point where i ignore the teasing even though i do get treated babishly no one want to give a job to some one totally dependandt on diapers but i work around it i survive jsut just let him knwo he is not alone plenty of adults need diapers even if adult style of diapers are not taht good and do leak alot well the disposables do but they do make cloth ones taht work well in adult sizes and tehy would not if there was not a need for them diapers are not just for babies even if we do get treated more like a baby by teh not so well informed but i wish him the best and hope this eases yoru pain some what he will be fine and who is to say eh might become the nest trump or rockafeller